So here she is. The world at her fingertips.
Feel sorry or feel grateful, it is a choice.
Take it in. Cry a minute. Then move on. Bigger things are yet to come. The greatest love will be here soon. The passion will be there, the love and the commitment, too. Not only surface but deep within.
This girl will love again.
Translation:
This girl is single. A little heartbroken, but it will only last so long. I will only LET it last so long.
Blessings:
Booked another wedding
Have an engagement session in 2 weeks
Getting LOTS of feedback on my photography
Support from my fam
Work is AMAZING
Best friend is always there. Always.
Feeling inspired. Yeah yeah.
Okay.... so I have to ask. And I'm not looking for sympathy, I promise. But when dealing with a breakup...what do you do? What have you done? What do you wish to change?
***side note. I'm being very optimistic about this right now. I'll give the honest truth tomorrow. check back on me.***
And yes, I was a blowup doll for Halloween :)
Feel sorry or feel grateful, it is a choice.
Take it in. Cry a minute. Then move on. Bigger things are yet to come. The greatest love will be here soon. The passion will be there, the love and the commitment, too. Not only surface but deep within.
This girl will love again.
Translation:
This girl is single. A little heartbroken, but it will only last so long. I will only LET it last so long.
Blessings:
Booked another wedding
Have an engagement session in 2 weeks
Getting LOTS of feedback on my photography
Support from my fam
Work is AMAZING
Best friend is always there. Always.
Feeling inspired. Yeah yeah.
Okay.... so I have to ask. And I'm not looking for sympathy, I promise. But when dealing with a breakup...what do you do? What have you done? What do you wish to change?
***side note. I'm being very optimistic about this right now. I'll give the honest truth tomorrow. check back on me.***
And yes, I was a blowup doll for Halloween :)
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ok reality? I stopped acting like myself for about a year and totally lost focus. Please please please don't do that-- although I think that warning is completely unnecessary because I can't imagine you doing that. I'd basically say don't make any big decisions in the next couple weeks/months because you are going through a lot emotionally.
XOXO and obviously you know you can contact me any time : )
oh p.s. HIS LOSS (Id feel like a bad friend if I didn't point out the obvious)
just remember what i texted you about being single ;-) teehee!
on a more serious note, I broke up with my ex boyfriend of 3 years back in freshman year of college...just a messy abusive relationship that was going NOWHERE! Sure you'd think I would be all psshh see ya because he was a jerk, but it still hurt leaving someone you knew for so long...had shared so much together, etc.
I kept busy (as you seem to be! look at you, you busy bee!) Tried to just let lose and embrace the time I had by myself, and really just got closer and closer to my friends who were all there to pick me up. Sabrina...I spent 3 awesome days with you and I KNOW how awesome of a person you are. Your "Mr Right" is out there somewhere I just KNOW it :-)
Love you girl!
xoxoxo
I haven't really been through a breakup because I've been with my boyrfriend for a long time, but things aren't going very well with us right now, and haven't been for a while. So I'll probably be asking for the same advice if we end up breaking up... Love is so confusing, but I try and keep thinking that if he's not the right one, eventually the right one will come.
p.s. you are one gorgeous blow-up doll! haha!
Honestly, there's no clear-cut solution. But remember to do what makes you happy. That's what matters the most.
I hate breakups. Ugh hate them. but my advice:
Cry. Have closure. Stay busy. Surround yourself with friends. cut off any communication
One of my fav quotes from how I met your mother:
“the one for you is coming and hes getting here as fast as he can” :)
and believe that. but the great thing is, i think you already do xoxooo
Then, I fake it 'til I make it. There's also no shame in putting on a happy face when you're in public. The last break up I went through, I focused on myself and found so many hidden passions.
This, too, shall pass...
For the moments where I really wanted to lose it, I went for a drive, listened to some tunes I could BELT OUT (sad AND happy!) and it's odd but still a great release! No joke, I've done it....plenty of times haha
Your costume is adorable and hysterical all at the same time, I love it!
Also love your optimism.
Let me tell you, when I went through my breakup with Nick last year -- I was the furthest thing from having a positive outlook. I felt sorry for myself, made stupid decisions, and shut myself out from everything/everyone around me...
UNTIL I realized that I was 21, going on 22, and I had my ENTIRE life ahead of me. This was the PERFECT opportunity to keep myself occupied with things that were going to make me SMILE. Making a new playlist and taking a jog around my town, spending time with my family (even more than I already did), buying some arts & crafts and letting my creativity take me to a fun, happy place. I didn't blog as much and I regret it, because it was (and still is) my outlet. It relieves all anger, stress, and hurt.
It's okay to think about him. It's okay to remember your great memories. But also acknowledge what brought you to the breakup. Be grateful that you realized sooner than later that separate ways was what was best for YOU.
Time. Heals. All.
You're a pretty girl with a beautiful soul and will have no problem in finding your prince charming. Just let go and let be.
I'm sorry. I just wrote a novel.
xoxo
In this particular situation of mine, I've really taken the time to feel out my emotions. I think it's important to look at the positive, but to also be realistic. Some days are harder than others and if you cry yourself to sleep for the next week or so, that's okay. Take this opportunity to better yourself, to find the beauty in this world, and to be grateful for the things you DO have. Because, in the end, I believe everything happens for a reason.
Some advice I've received while going through this is that one day, when I DO have Mr. Right with me, I'm going to be so grateful for these moments of heartbreak right now. I'll be so thankful that I didn't end up with Mr. Wrong! Take it each day at a time. I think it's so easy to focus on how lonely you are or how much you wish he was next to you or how badly you just want to text him, but don't let your mind go there. Stay strong and just keep the focus on yourself right now. The rest will fall into place when the time is right :) Sending a big hug your way, beautiful! xoxo
Breakups are never great but I always rely on great friends and realizing there is a reason things happen. It's a perfect time to pick up a new hobby or really throw yourself into a passion (photography). I always find that during breakups I become especially close with friends. I have more time for my family and for myself. And usually I am in the best shape of my life. The blog world is a perfect clutch during this transition and I'm sure you have tons of amazing friends as well!! :) Be up front, tell them you need them! :)
At least that's what I do!
oxox all the best lady!
I couldn't eat (literally didn't eat for 3 days from feelings of nausea), couldn't sleep, and couldn't be alone. My advice is to stay busy, just like it seems you are! And count on friends more than ever before. Family, too! That's what they are there for!
Also, when I became single I started my blog because it kept me busy, so you've already got a head start!
I'm so glad you're so optimistic about this because I know I was a wreck and never thought I would heal...things DO get better though, I promise!
Just keep like a busy, busy bee! :)
xoxo
-Ali
As for remedies for a broken heart, there's no fail-proof plan, but I find blasting girl power music (I don't need a man - PCD; who run the world - Beyonce; Since u been gone - Kelly Clarkson)while driving is always good for the soul.
And pick up a hobby that you loved doing but kind of disappeared after you started dating. I went through a bad break up back in Feb and reconnected with so many gfs I forgot to make the time for while i was "happily" in a relationship. They definitely helped heal the wounds!
Breakups are the absolute worst but everyone goes through them. You choose how you come out on the other side. Even though it ended, I'm sure you had good times together. Remember those. Cry if you want to. All these things will heal you and let you appreciate that he was just what you wanted/needed at the time.
And really? He's just helping you figure out what you really want, because don't you deserve a love that is absolutely beautiful?
Live deep and true to yourself and lean on your friends.
I've really enjoyed reading your blog! Thank you for the lovely optimism. I haven't gone through a break up in a while but sometimes you need the reminder. :)
It takes time to get over someone but I've always found that you need to focus on the future instead of dwelling about the past.
Keep being optimistic :) You'll be back in action before you know it.
xo, Kels
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I'm at a fork in the road, so to speak, with my boyfriend and I'm really not sure which way we're going to go (staying together or splitting up). But I keep reminding myself of advice my best friend gave me YEARS ago: "a setback is a set-up for a comeback" so go make your comeback! and don't forget that it's okay to cry while you're making it :)
One thing that kept me broken up with exes was to just not talk to them again. I was never good at the whole "lets be friends" thing...as long as I talked to an ex, we always got back together so my advice...if you don't want to get back together with him...is to keep out of contact with him.
You're a doll and I'm confident Mr. Right is out there for you...I mean, who wouldn't wanna snatch you up?! (In a total non-creepy way...lol)
Anyways-I know there's not a whole lot anyone can say or do to make anything better right now but just know that God has a plan for EVERYTHING and although you may not understand it right now...you will understand it one day! xo
Oh-blowup doll costume=AMAZING!!!! SO perfect!!
I stumbled across your blog awhile ago and I've enjoyed reading it. :) You seem like an amazing person, so keep your chin up! I'm sure something better is just around the corner!
You're a beautiful person, Sabrina. Both inside and out; don't ever forget that!
xoxo
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